‘’Love is a friendship that has caught fire’’. Ann landers says,’’Love is quiet understanding ,mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving .It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses.’’ Great observation.
When it is love (the sign)?
You love them When you give them priority over all else. Rabindranath Tagore said’ ’love does not claim possession ,but gives freedom.’’You understand when it is love. Life is hardwired to realize true love. Great RUMI said’’ This is love. to fly toward a secret sky ,to cause a hundred veils to fall each moment. First to let go of life, finally to take a step without feet’’. Love is penultimate sense of conscience. H. J. ACKSON JR. CONCLUDES’’Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own’’.
Who/What to love ?
Different people have different sense of loving.’’There is no sincere love than the love of food’ ’George Bernard Shaw suggests. I agree completely.’’ I love the feeling of fresh air on my face and the wind blowing through my air’’ Evel Knivel has a different love. Buddha suggested ‘’You, youself, as much as anybody in the entire universe , deserve your love and affection.
Why love hurts?
Because ’’Love recognize no barriers’’-Maya Angelou replies’’ It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls, to arrive it’s destination full of hope’’ but on the way the social and natural discipline may not get in sync. We need to glide our love through barriers and the roadblocks.
Misunderstings – who is responsible ?
‘’Gravitation is not responsible’’-great Albert Einstein said’’ for people falling in love’’ neither is water pollution responsible for the misunderstandings. Yoko uno said ’’ the regreat of my life is that I have not said ’I love you’ often enough. love is a sweet bird ,it needs sweet talk and sweet emotions. When nurturing feelings die, the love nest dries and the lovebird flies away.
What not to do in love?
Don’t hurt feelings. Don’t cross boundaries. Love is fragile. Marioteguh says’’never take a decision when you are upset, jealous or in love’’. Bad decisions hurt.’’ and ever has it been known that love knows not it’s own depth’’ Khalil Gibran professed ‘’untill the hour of separation’’.
Love tips
Confusius suggested ’’Choose a job you love and YOU will never have to work a day in your life’’ great words are self defined. ’’Friends show their love in times of trouble and not in happiness’’ Euripedes added. but don’t hold on love because mind cheats.’’If you love someone ,set them free’’Khalil Gibran mentored ’’if they come back they are yours, if they don’t they never were’’.Don’t chase love.
Love is life , life is love. Love of parents ,love of spouse, love of children, work colleagues, love of doing and being, love has many paradigms. So as great Shakespeare told the audience’’If music be the food of love,play on’’.