1 Where did I start loving?
There was no one to help me understanding the love phenomenon. I don’t know when did I start loving? Sometimes way back in my childhood the dynamic energy must have activated me. I particularly don’t know the process of love. But life programs everyone for loving. Love is inbuilt the spirit. Where did I start loving?
2 What is the scale of love?
Some people love there pillows and the others love money, matter, things and people. On the scale of love it started with attachment then it shaped into the care, then it converted into possession and then the self realization and then the self was love. Love and the self were no two entities. They were just one.
Lao Tzu said “being deeply loved by some one gives you strength, while love someone deeply gives you courage.” Love was complimentary to success. Love was success.
3 How would I know it was love?
I was acting, I was smiling, I was making friends. Was it love? And with whom? Why did I do what I had? What was my plan? What did I want to get? Was the love my investment into life or was life investing love unto me. And what was the return of that investment of love? What was to get? Why was it given or shared? How would I know it was love?
4 Was the love blind?
Did love cry tears? Or was it sobbing? Did love expect? Was there the heart break? What was the love doing? Is the love a date of a blind with life? Is life blind? Or is the love blind? Who knows?
5 The love phenomenon
“Work like you don’t need money. Love like you have never been hurt. Dance like nobody is watching.” When Satchel Paige told so he was talking about the love phenomenon.
The dictionary defines love in several ways in which we use the word as strong positive emotion, affection or pleasure. But understanding deeply I found love is success. Love is life. And love is for real. We forget how to love and we start living into the surreal world of hypocrisy, bluff, cheat, dogma and the love has become the torture chamber of life. Life provided us everything. We become what we made of ourselves.
To be continued……
Gappu Chaturvedi
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