Success through happy relations with self and others
Relationship is the way in which two things or people get connected. It is a kind of interpersonal connection. Relations are the extension wire of self, connecting you with the world network. Relations are peoples’ own personal world. Relations make us realize the sense and purpose of our life . The feeling of being loved and connected is important for emotional wellness .The healthy relations help us maintain the feel good hormones while the negative relations help generate stress inducing hormone. 100 counselors help you realize the core value of relationships and extend our counseling services if they require.
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Relationship is the connection of two or more. A kind of emotional network. A unit of emotional teamwork. Membership in a social group or intimate relationship. It is an association of individuals.
1) How does relationship work?
Relationship requires care and understanding. There can be many aspects in the relationship equation. ’’nobody can predict the future’’ Nick Cannon says, ’’you just have to give all to relationship you are in. Care for your significant others through good times and bad’’. Thats how relationship should be nurtured.
2) Why does relationship fail?
Interpersonal Relationship is a matrix that is designed around the programme of emotional coding. We operate on relations with our limited understanding of the human engineering. We fail sometimes and there occurs the ego clash. We must learn to forgive others and our own flaws. As Bryant. H.Mcgill says, ’’there is no love without forgiveness and there is no forgiveness without love’’. Love is the key to relationship.
3) Which is the best relationship?
Professional relationship,Intimate relationship, relatives, friends, colleagues, workmate, Which is the best relationship? Let the mind decide because relationship is the way we regard and behave. Let words confuse the common minds but great Buddha says, ’’Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship’’. Be faithful in association if it is fine with your life programme.
4) Are relationships true?
What is the truth of relationship? ’’Truth is everybody is going to hurt you. You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for’’, great singer Bob Marley says. How true? Nobody can define the truth of relationship because relationships are the subjective phenomenon while the people are the objective creatures. Relationships are the complex equations for nonsense minds.
5) Husband-Wife relationship
Great tragedy with our lifestyle is that we listen to the society and fashion more than our conscience. People poison ears and we start taking blind risks. We need to give deeper understanding of the partner and for that we need to trust .as great B.R.Ambedkar puts the concept in simpler terms’’ The relationship between husband and wife should be one of the closest friends’’.
6) What is the key to a successful relationship?
There are many ingredients to the recipe. Empathetic listening, quality time , but it would be apt to quote Miranda kerr ,’’ I think for any relation to be successful ,there needs to be loving communication, appreciation and understanding’’. I can’t be less than agree with this deep realization. We need to respect life if we want any relation to be successful.
7) What is the future of relationship?
Everything depends on the choices taken. Place, time and circumstances play great role in developing and sustaining any relationship. Great Franklin Roosewelt point this sharp when he declares ’’If civilization is to survive, we must cultivate the science of human relationship. The ability of all people of all kinds, to live together in the same world at peace’’.
8) An intelligent advice for the relationship management
Don’t take it too hard. Relationships are like butterflies. If you hold them hard they will die of congestion, if you let them free they may fly away and get in peril. Relationship is a tight rope walk that should be dealt with prudence. An intelligent advice for the relationship management from the great Khalil Gibran ’’but let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love . Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls’’. How realized.
9) The peaceful world relationship
The world is interconnected and we are interrelated. The love-hate relationship humanity is imperiled by bad interpersonal relationship of the statesmen and politicians. Peace is a bird that wants to fly high in open sky of happiness but as Jawaharlal Nehru says ’’ Peace is not a relationship of nations . It is a condition of mind brought about by the serenity of soul. Peace is not merely an absence of war. It is also a state of mind. Lasting peace can come only to peaceful people’’. in the same way lasting relationships are the prerogative of the peaceful minds.
10) Relationship with friends
Friendship is one of the purest and lovely relationship. As Addison Mizner says, ’’God gives us relatives, thank god, we can choose our friends’’. Friendship is an experimental and empirical relationship. We should try the same process in all relationships so that we may have a friendly relationship with life.
11) The love relationship
One of the most misunderstood association is love relationship. Whether it is sexual ,romantic or platonic .We want selfish fulfillment. Virtual lies keep us expecting moon while the reality bites us on our neck. We want things permanent in a temporary world and make the relationship suffer. Great visionary Shri Rabindranath Tagore says, ’’love does not claim possession, but gives freedom’’.
12) What kills the relationship?
People require ego massage. They expect much and do less. By reaping doubt they desire to reap trust. Broken trust and the end of the communication kill the relationship. Ignorance of the partners feelings and emotions, violence and domination, over expectations are few of the many factors that can be termed as the relationship killers.
13) 100counsellors suggests
Stop doubting because life will not return your wasted moments. As Henry Winkler suggests, ’’Assumptions are the termite of relationship’’. Stop assuming and start observing your input into the relationship because we reap what we sow. Hugh Mackay says ,’’Nothing is perfect, life is messy, relationships are complex ,outcomes are uncertain, people are irrational’’.
14) How to find reality of relationship?
There are ways. Eyes tell the truth. Spirit knows the reality.Great chanakya says ‘’He who lives in our mind is near though he may actually be far away, but he who is not in our heart is far ,though he may really be nearby’’
15) What relationship values?
It is upto the people connected. Their core values. Some might say circumstances have value and situations dominate the outcomes ,yet others don’t necessarily agree, as Christopher McCandies say, ’’Circumstances have no value, it is how one relates to a situation that has value. All true meaning resides in the personal relationship to a phenomenon. what it means to you.’’ Relationship is the value addition to your lonely self.